Wow, thanks for the reply. That does sound exactly like my situation. The intermittent nature of the issue really makes it difficult to troubleshoot.
Interestingly, I think we can put a problematic Ubiquiti firmware update in the "tentatively ruled out" column. My UDM-base model is on a completely different firmware update schedule than the UDM-SE (I know way more about UI's firmware update schedule than I'd ever hoped to) and I've tested both the stable and early-release channel with no joy.
If you need a temporary solution while keeping your network topology intact, you might try putting another router between your UDM-SE and the ONT. I would like to try an unmanaged switch as well, but don't have one on-hand at the moment.
Interestingly, I think we can put a problematic Ubiquiti firmware update in the "tentatively ruled out" column. My UDM-base model is on a completely different firmware update schedule than the UDM-SE (I know way more about UI's firmware update schedule than I'd ever hoped to) and I've tested both the stable and early-release channel with no joy.
If you need a temporary solution while keeping your network topology intact, you might try putting another router between your UDM-SE and the ONT. I would like to try an unmanaged switch as well, but don't have one on-hand at the moment.