Um. "Competitive asymmetry" sounds like you're being a nice guy who can't believe anyone would be tilting the playing field intentionally.adding fiber to poles that they likely shouldn't, given that the poles overloaded and tagged. That creates a competitive asymmetry
Once is happenstance, twice, is coincidence, three times ..... might warrant a lawyer letter, if there's a regulator who might be nudged into some oversight. I hope you have considered the possibility that there's some big businesses out there who'd like to do you and your customers badly.